Online love that I can't get over it! is it fair?

I fell in love with a guy online %26amp; I devoted myself to him for more than 3 years now, times %26amp; again he had told me he loves me %26amp; it was true, but now he's ignored me for almost 6 months %26amp; I can't get over him at all. I don't feel like dating another person coz I think about him 24 hrs %26amp; fantasize about him %26amp; only him. Am I stupid for doing this? any advices please? anyone who's been in the same situation? I feel like I have an unfinished business with my beloved man %26amp; I don't think I'll get over it till he tell me he doesn't want me anymore, this disappearing game is not working with me. Help please!!

Online love that I can't get over it! is it fair?
Oh-kay. You do understand that you are in love with love, yes?





You "devoted yourself to him for more than three years,"and for six months of those three years he's been ignoring you. You fantasize about him. You don't date anyone else? "I don't think I'll get over it..."





That's a decision you make. He's made his - he ended it, and in a lame way. He just...stopped. Maybe he's in prison (yikes), maybe he just lost interest. For whatever reason, he's ended the "relationship."





Understand that unless you actually met him - met his family, his friends, became part of his life - you only had a virtual relationship with the person he presented himself to be. You don't know for a fact that what he told you about himself was true. Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't. You don't know.





You do know that the relatonship is over. Yes, you can get over it, if you want to. Right now, you're caught up in the lovely drama, the "I'm a tragic heroine" story you're telling yourself ("devoted," "he loves me," "I can't get over him..."). Feels all nice and dramatic. Makes you feel special.





More fun is to feel special in the company of an actual guy who really knows and loves the real you. In person.





He was a fantasy before, and he's a fantasy now. Tell yourself whatever story makes you feel good (after all, it's unlikely you'll ever know the truth). Tell yourself he joined the Foreign Legion. Tell yourself he was a magical prince and had to go back to his magic land. Whatever works.





Then get out and spend face time with some living, breathing people.
Reply:Online guys...well....are just like many guys......and are just looking for some fun for a while....some are even married, or already have serious girlfriends....so many of them are not nice guys to begin with...or else they are just players...looking to play .... not to love and care about you...





other guys just don't want a real relationship....they just want temporary girlfriends....it might work for them for a while...but eventually their looks go and slowly they find they can no longer so easily find girls who only want nothing....most girls want real love.....





...many girls fall for all the talk of the guys...but it is always better to wait and see what they do....not go by just what they say....





...I think....girls too many times....we get like feeling we need to have a guy and be in love all the time...maybe though better to at times....give yourself the love you need....do things that matter to you....work...school...and don't worry about finding a guy....let the guy find you.....while you are busy enjoying all the great things about life....
Reply:He scammed you big time. Why did it take you 3 years to realize he was not real? Online dating does not mean you only date online. Online dating is just so you can find people you want to date in real life. If there is not hope of meeting (the person lives more than 100 miles away), then it is most likely a scammer who will try and get as much money out of you as they can. You are supposed to actually meet in person from time to time. So you ask were you stupid? In a word YES.
Reply:sorry to be blunt but..


he was playing you.


he was using you to "get off" as i am sure you two had cybersex..


just find someone new to talk to!


enjoy getting to know someone else!
Reply:he played u badly so i feel sorry for u second online dating its not cool it sux dont rush love let fate deal with it love will find u just give it some time u must stop this online dating its not cool it sux really sux
Reply:Find a man in the real world and not in the cyberworld. Thats a sign of desperation. I know u can find someone u will love that lives in the same state/ area as u.
Reply:how can u fall for him ONLINE????


thats like not a real relationship


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