Online Dating/Let the man Chase?

I met a man online and we have been talking for over 3 weeks now, via email and phone. I’m 35 years old and he’s 37 years old. He lives in Atlanta and I live in Dallas. He owns his own business so he has some flexibility with his schedule. I am off weekends.





I have gone above and beyond the call of duty where relationships go in the past, only to be disappointed, and I don’t want to repeat old patterns with this person.





Here’s the deal, sorry I got so winded:





He would rather wait until he’s tied up a few loose ends on his end before he comes my way, because he wants to come for a whole week or so, of course getting his own hotel, etc. I on the other had opened up my big moutlast night and said that I need to come there on the 23 May, which is Memorial Day weekend.





What do you all think? Do you think he should be the one that comes out the first time we meet each other? Do you think I should just be patient and let him chase me?

Online Dating/Let the man Chase?
I think its ok for you to meet him being that you'll be there anyways.. just because you'll be doing it first instead of him doesn't mean that your falling into your old patterns, its all about how you allow him to perceive you while and after doing it... you can still make him chase you, even though you'll be going there first...
Reply:Be patient!
Reply:Be patient, and let him chase you.
Reply:He sounds married to me!